First Christmas in a New Land: When Familiar Traditions Meet New Beginnings


There’s something surreal about experiencing familiar celebrations in unfamiliar places. Like watching a beloved movie with different subtitles - the story is the same, but the experience transforms into something new and unexpected.

A Different Kind of December

Our first Christmas away from home came with its own learning curve. A coworker of my wife surprised us with a Christmas tree - a gesture that brought both joy and a wave of nostalgia. Back home, our apartment’s tree was always visible through the window, its lights twinkling against warm summer nights. Here, our new tree stands against a backdrop of snow, its reflection dancing on our window pane in the early winter darkness.

Reimagining Traditions

Some traditions travel well across borders, while others need creative adaptation. Last night, we took our dog for a walk through a nearby park that had been transformed into a winter wonderland. LED lights wrapped around trees created a magical atmosphere that felt straight out of a movie. A skating trail wound through the park, filled with laughing families - a scene so different from our usual Christmas experiences, yet somehow equally festive.

We ventured into creating our own version of Christmas dinner, complete with turkey (though I admit, it took some YouTube tutorials to get it right). The apartment filled with familiar aromas that transported us home for a moment. Video calls with family became our bridge across continents - their faces on screen, sharing their own celebrations, created a beautiful blend of our two worlds. The day after Christmas, we shared a meal with new friends who’ve become our local support system. Their presence helped ease the homesickness with new memories, proving that meaningful connections can be created anywhere.

New Year’s Eve: Traditions in Translation

New Year’s Eve approaches with its own set of adjustments. Back home, it was always a grand celebration - dancing until dawn, sharing a huge dinner with family and friends, and the traditional burning of the “año viejo” (a life-sized doll representing the old year). Here, we’re learning to adapt - some traditions, like burning the año viejo, won’t make the journey with us (apparently, setting things on fire in public spaces is frowned upon here!).

Present Moment: Finding Balance

As I reflect on this year, my heart overflows with gratitude. We’ve been blessed with incredible opportunities and surrounded by people who’ve helped us navigate countless challenges. Yet, I can’t help but feel nervous about what the new year might bring. My wife and I are each other’s strongest support system, and maintaining that emotional foundation becomes even more crucial as we continue this journey.

Looking Ahead

Life, like any good story, is about adaptation and growth. As we prepare to welcome a new year, I’m learning that while some cherished traditions might need reinventing, the essence of what makes them special - love, family, hope, and gratitude - remains unchanged, just expressed differently.

To everyone reading this, whether you’re celebrating familiar traditions or creating new ones: Happy Holidays! May your new year be filled with joy, growth, and beautiful surprises.